Friday, December 24, 2010

On the Twelfth Day of Christmas...

On the Twelfth Day of Christmas my good friends gave to me...
A multitude of ways to remember the Savior!


Of course, there is really only one Reason for the Season, so here are some ideas for remembering the Savior.


Visit the Church's website dedicated to the Savior.  Read the Prophet's testimonies of him.  Write your own.

http://jesuschrist.lds.org/SonOfGod/eng/


(Before I forget, since it's Christmas Eve, here's the link for the kids to the Santa Tracker in case you don't already have it:)

http://www.noradsanta.org/en/index.html



This month in Sharing Time the children were asked to come up with gifts they could give to the Savior for His birthday.  Come up with your own ideas and then follow through.  Here are some to get you started:

Listen to Christmas carols and other music that focus solely on the birth of the Savior.  Leave out the popular carols for a bit.  Let yourself feel the Spirit that comes with them.

Spend time with your family and really be there.  Give them 100% of your time, attention, love and energy.  Don't be somewhere else in your mind. 

Share the gospel with someone else. 

Invite someone to join in the fun who might not have any family around.

Do some family history work and plan to take the names to the temple.  This is in direct correlation with the Visiting Teaching message this month.

Write a note of appreciation to someone who has made a difference in your life.  Think outside the box and possibly beyond your immediate family.  Challenge yourself.

Do a random act of service for everyone in your household.  Make it really good and really anonymous.

Sit by a family with children in church this week.  Don't think how loud their kids are, think how you can help them out.  Remember, Christmas was the day before and they are TIRED and CRANKY.

Write your testimony in your journal.

Begin your personal history for your posterity.  Make yourself real.  Don't leave out the best parts - the embarassments, surprises, frustrations, and disappointments.  This is what they'll learn from.

Share your talents.

The list could go on and on. Be creative and remember Pres. Monson's words: "He who gives money gives much, he who gives of his time gives more; but he who gives himself gives all."

Merry Christmas!  Enjoy it! 

The Cooper Clan

Thursday, December 23, 2010

On the Eleventh Day of Christmas....

On the Eleventh Day of Christmas my good friends gave to me...
A reminder of Joseph Smith's birthday!



Today is the Prophet Joseph Smith's birthday.  I think it's nice that we can remember him at this season as well.  Here are a couple of links.  The first is to the Church Joseph Smith website.  Here you can find just about anything you could possibly want to find about the Prophet and his life and teachings.

http://josephsmith.net/josephsmith/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=041579179acbff00VgnVCM1000001f5e340aRCRD



The second link is to the Mormon Tabernacle Choir website.  Scroll down to Praise to the Man.  It is a simple but powerful video about the Prophet. 

http://www.mormontabernaclechoir.org/videos/



The artwork on my blog today is all Liz Lemon Swindle.  She has been a longtime favorite for Dan and I.  Her paintings of Joseph Smith's life are amazing.  We have a book of these pictures and love to look at it.  For more of her work, go check out http://www.reparteegallery.com/m-159-Liz-Lemon-Swindle.aspx


For the Kids

Today for the kids, I will direct their attention to the Friend website.  Loads of games, coloring pages, activities and videos.  I particularly enjoy the videos they have set to primary songs.  It is the homepage to each of my kids accounts on our computer, and I find they quite often don't go anywhere else once they log in. 

http://www.friend.lds.org/

For the older kids, have you checked out the youth page from the church?  If not, take a gander!

https://beta.lds.org/youth?locale=eng  or http://www.youth.lds.org/

You can find the Mormon messages just for youth and invite the spirit in for Christmas!

Have a great day.  The countdown is on.  Only one more day of Christmas!  And take a moment to think of Joseph Smith today.  Read the account of the First Vision in the Joseph Smith History.  In the whirlwind of Christmas prep, pause and ponder how we wouldn't have as much to celebrate if Joseph wasn't willing to follow in faith.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Just my opinion...



Hello out there, does anyone else feel my pain?  Three days into Christmas vacation and I'm ready to pull my hair out.  Whoever decided to let kids out a week BEFORE Christmas should be shot.  They obviously never had a house full of kids waiting for the big day to come.  Some might argue that it gives us time to get ready.  I'm not entirely sure how grocery shopping is more effective with 4 people tugging my arm and begging for candy.

Couldn't there be public opinion polls on school holidays?  Wouldn't they be interested to know how the parents feel?  What days we'd like to have our kidlets around?  I think it would be a whole lot more fun to have them two week after Christmas, once the toys are opened and new, exciting things can help with the entertaining. 

I suppose it's my own fault really.  It's gloomy and wet here, so I have not dragged them outside enough.  The malls etc. are INSANE and the idea of even setting foot near one, let alone with my children, is enough to give me a panic attack.  Also, I am totally not willing nor in the position to spend a lot of money on the commercialized activities available throughout town.  So what else to do?  Well, the usual winter indoor activities.  Plus a lot of crowd control. 

Mediating. 
Cease fires. 
Making food - over and over and over. 
Cleaning (it's like shovelling in a snow storm aroud here!). 
Time outs abound. 

Oh well.  Three more days....maybe there will still be someone alive to enjoy the big day.

On the Tenth Day of Christmas...

On the Tenth Day of Christmas my good friends gave to me...
A virtual card and a list of movies!

Click on the following links to have a little chuckle.  Let your own kids do this too, or do it yourself.  Share with us? 

Hip Hop Greetings:

http://elfyourself.jibjab.com/view/Rjm4p2CZ1WeXAMZNhRn5

Disco Fever:

http://elfyourself.jibjab.com/view/KSdzPySHhWz228RMptfq

Country HoeDown:

http://elfyourself.jibjab.com/view/pIlqlnjbSAc0GbBGP5iN

Merry Christmas!

http://elfyourself.jibjab.com/view/sbR63vdbLqruqXFB3mUh


Our Favorite Holiday Movies (in no particular order)

A Christmas Story

 

The Polar Express



A Muppet Christmas Carol




 A Christmas Carol (newest.  Dad, if you're looking for an alternative to the old Alastair Sims, try this one.  Clay loves it and it is truer to the original than a lot of hollywood versions)



Scrooged

 

National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation



The Santa Clause Movies (Madi really likes #3, but the first is always the best).



One Magic Christmas (in honor of my mom.  I hated it when I was younger.  Now I cry everytime).



Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer (Dan laughs at me, but this is still my holiday favorite.  Brings back lots of memories I guess.  I know it's cheesy, but I have to see it every year.  At least hear Holly Jolly Christmas!)

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

On the Ninth Day of Christmas...

On the Ninth Day of Christmas my good friends gave to me...
Twinkling lights for all to see!

We went looking at Christmas Lights with the kids last night, a family tradition.  I'm sure many others do the same.  Here's a look at how Temple Square gets done up for the holidays.  I always love seeing them during the First Presidency Broadcast, but I have never been there personally.  Although we saw many lovely displays last night, nothing beats the lights in Temple Square.

http://lds.org/church/news/lighting-up-temple-square?lang=eng


Here's a link for making your very own crystal snowflake.  Kids will need help, but it's fun to see the next day. 

http://chemistry.about.com/cs/howtos/ht/boraxsnowflake.htm

Or, for fun, make them glow in the dark.  Great fun for hanging in your room for Christmas Eve!

http://chemistry.about.com/od/holidayhowtos/a/glowsnowflake.htm

Monday, December 20, 2010

On the Eighth Day of Christmas....

On the Eighth Day of Christmas my good friends gave to me...
A lesson on Christmas history!

History fascinates me, particularly what happened throughout history that makes us do what we do today.  Somehow we think our traditions and beliefs are so original or young, but many of them have come to us through thousands of years, evolving with every generation.  Think Santa Clause or the Christmas Tree are relatively new concepts in modern history?  Think again!  Here's one explanation on some of the things we take as commonplace in our Christmas celebrations.  It brings home the fact that the celebration of our Savior transcends all time and culture.  We are all connected as Children of God.  Enjoy!

For those of you with kids at home all day, everyday, anxiously awaiting the big day, I am going to include a link or two everyday to activities that just might save you when boredom strikes.  Here's one for younger kids that like to color.  It's basically a set of nativity stick puppets.  Just scroll down to the templates and print.

http://www.dltk-holidays.com/xmas/felt/index.htm

Make or purchase playdough in Christmas colors.  Let them play until interest wanes.  Here's a couple of recipes if you don't have one and do not have playdough on hand.  They have every recipe you could imagine at the following link.  Just find one you have ingredients for, and go to!  (They have one you spice to smell like gingerbread....)

http://www.playdoughrecipe.com/





Meaning of Christmas Symbols Explained


By David K. Hale,
Brigham Young University
NewsNet Staff Writer
13 Dec. 2002
Nativities dot the landscape, carolers abound and not a lick of snow in Provo. it must be Christmas.

In the Christian world, Christmas is a time to celebrate the birth of Christ, yet traditions from mistletoe to the gift giving largesse that is so prevalent, seems a far cry from the simplicity of Jesus Christ's birth.

Celebrating Christmas has been controversial since its inception. Numerous festivities found their roots in pagan practices, and were greatly frowned upon by conservatives within the Christians world.

Despite its Christian context today, much of what defines the modern Christmas holiday, found their roots in pagan society.

Here is a brief look at where some Christmas Traditions originated:



The Date:

There were mid-winter festivals in ancient Babylon and Egypt, and Germanic fertility festivals which also took place at this time. The birth of the ancient sun god Attis in Phrygia was celebrated on December 25th, as was the birth of the Persian sun god, Mithras, according to Christmas-time.com.

The Romans celebrated Saturnalia, a festival dedicated to Saturn, the god of peace and plenty, that ran from the 17th to 24th of December. Public gathering places were decorated with flowers, gifts and candles were exchanged and the population, slaves and masters alike, celebrated the occasion with great enthusiasm.

According to the Catholic Encyclopedia, in Scandanavia a period of festivities known as Yule contributed another impetus to celebration, as opposed to spirituality. As winter ended the growing season, the opportunity of enjoying the summer's bounty encouraged much feasting and merriment.



Mistletoe:



The Celtic culture of the British Isles revered all green plants, but particularly mistletoe and holly. These were important symbols of fertility and were used for decorating their homes and altars, stated Lady Anna, christmaspast.info contributing writer.



Santa Claus:



Also known as Father Christmas, the myths and legends surrounding Santa Claus are a mixture of pagan customs from differing regions.

According to CNN.com, Santa Claus is a corruption of the name "Saint Nicholas", a Roman Catholic Bishop who lived in the 4th century. He was a saint honored by the Greeks and Latins on December 6th, for the legendary bestowal of dowries on the three daughters of an impoverished citizen - said to originate the custom of giving gifts in secret on the ever of St. Nicholas, December 6th, later transferred to Christmas Day.

The legend of Santa Claus entering the house through the chimney, and the hanging of socks and stockings by the fire-place, relates to the ancient superstitions around hearth spirits. The Chinese and others would traditionally sweep and scour the house in preparation for the visit by the hearth spirit. Dressed in a pointed red cap and red jacket, this fire god traveled from the heavens above, visiting homes to distribute favors or punishments.



The Tree:



The concept of the Christmas Tree originated around 3000 B.C. in ancient Egypt with King Osiris and Queen Isis, according to historychannel.com

After the death of King Osiris, his wife, Isis, propagated the doctrine of the survival of Osiris as a spirit. She claimed a full-grown evergreen tree sprang overnight from a dead stump, symbolizing the new life of the Osiris spirit from his death. On each anniversary of Osiris' birth, which was the date we know know as December 25th, Isis would leave gifts around his tree.

During the middle ages, the Germans believed the evergreen trees were especially imbued with life since they remained green throughout all of winter. Greenery was prominent in pagan winter celebrations in honor of the tree spirit or spirit of fertility.

The Romans trimmed the trees with trinkets and toys at that time of year. The Druids tied gilded apples to tree branches. For many, a tree decorated with orbs and fruit-like objects symbolized the tree of life in the Garden of Eden.

Despite pagan origins, many of today's Christmas traditions have given way to Christian interpretations.

Copyright 2003 BYU NewsNet

Sunday, December 19, 2010

On the Seventh Day of Christmas...

On the Seventh Day of Christmas my good friends gave to me...
A Hallelujah Chorus to see!



As you may know, Handel's Messiah is one of my favorite compositions.  I have seen it a number of times and the Hallelujah Chorus never fails to move me to tears.  This month's Ensign has an article dedicated to George Frederic Handel and what we can learn from his experiences writing the oratorio.  Check out the link below to see the Mormon Tabernacle Choir perform the Hallelujah Chorus with brilliance and the spirit.

http://lds.org/ensign/2010/12/handel-and-the-gift-of-messiah?lang=eng

Sit back, turn it up and prepare for a musical delight!

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Meanest Mom in the World...Take Two

Just an update on my bid for "Meanest Mom" two years running -

Today I have achieved new status by outlawing media in our house.  Let me back up. 

This semester has been tough in more ways than one and it has seen a steady decline in the state of my house and a sharp rise in the amount of time spent by minors in front of a screen of one type or another.  I have to admit, I have had too many days when that has been easier due to the sheer amount of things I needed to accomplish that were easier to manage with the children's attention so undivided.  But I also noticed that my kids, who have always had enormous imaginations, were losing the ability to entertain each other for longer than about 5 minutes.  My ears were growing accustomed to the sounds of whining (I'm bored!  She played longer than me!  When is it my turn?) and shrieks of dismay when time limits were set.  I have been struggling with the balance between the good of media and the bad of time eaten by it.

This morning it came to a head.  Dad is at work and the children got up, turned on the t.v., then proceeded to argue amongst themselves and with me who would play the computer first and whine if they were chosen to go last.  As I sat drowning in the cacophony of screams and crying, I surveyed the ever-growing piles of "organized" chaos surrounding us.  And then my conclusion was reached.  Time for serious intervention! 

The plan is simple.  There is a list of 10 things that MUST be done before media comes back on in our home.  These things are the tasks I have not gotten to and could use some help with, over and above their regular half an hour responsibilities for the day - clean out the storage room, clean the fridge, organize the videos, etc.  I'm sure any mother can imagine the things I came up with.  They are the deciding factor in how quickly this will be done.  If they help, we might just get done today.  If not, it could take me two, three, four days...

The cries of outrage increased for a few minutes.  Then they realized mom was serious.  I could see their plans of lazing around all Christmas holidays evaporate into thin air right before them.  I saw the disappointment, the anger, the frustration.  But I reached way down into my Meanest Mom reservoir and stood firm.  It only took about ten minutes before little hands began finding things they could help with.  And I saw the glimmer of hope return to those baby blues as they saw the end was not so far away - if we all work together.

As I write this, a few things on our list have been accomplished.  Not too many, but I don't mind.  Because the sounds of "X-Men Olympics" in my living room are music to my ears.  They are imagining again!  They are playing together again!  I knew it would be like riding a bike.  I am reveling in this beautiful, somewhat noisy but joyous moment of Christmas music and free play.  Because, although a spotless house is something I sometimes dream about, this really was the goal all along.  Entertained without being entertained.  I AM the Meanest Mom in the whole world, but it's worth it!

On the Sixth Day of Christmas...

On the Sixth Day of Christmas my good friends gave to me...
A list of websites that might entertain me!

It's the first day of Christmas vacation for the kids, but there's still a week til the big day.  Here's a few links that might help keep the spirit high and the boredom low on a damp or cold Saturday.

For the kids:

Check out some Christmas themed games, various puzzles and memory games etc.:

http://akidsheart.com/holidays/christms/chgames.htmjj

http://www.merry-christmas.com/games/

http://www.northpole.com/clubhouse/games/

http://freechristmasgames.com/

And for the younger crew whoe like Dora:

http://www.nickjr.com/games/dora-xmas.jhtmlj


For the Bigger People

Did you know the Church has a Christmas page?  I didn't!  Watch videos, read articles, hear music.  It's all there.

http://lds.org/topic/christmas/


Have a great day, and take a break from the prep to really enjoy the spirit!